When done right, foreplay can be just as good and as intense as the main event. But whether you’re in a long-term relationship or a first-time hookup, it can get overlooked in the heat of the moment.
Foreplay doesn’t have to be rigid, straight out of the playbook. It’s an opportunity to explore each other, and to get to know each other. Men’s Health Australia has some tips for men who are either reticent to engage in some lengthy role-play or eager to get it over with and on to the headlining act! We have some of our favourite foreplay tips for everyone to try.
1. Relive Your Best Moments
No matter how solid your relationship is, the early days of your romance will always tend to be hottest. The next time you and your partner are getting intimate, use those early hookups as inspiration to recreate one of your past encounters.
Maybe start at one of your old date-night haunts, or reenact one of your earlier dates, then later, break out that move you used to do in bed that made you both crazy!
2. Talk Dirty
Dirty talk can sometimes feel a little awkward to begin, but it is a ridiculously effective means of getting you both turned on. The trick is not to overthink it. Sometimes just simply stating what’s on your mind, or saying exactly what you want to do to your partner is all it needs.
3. Make Foreplay an All-Day Event
Don’t wait for bedtime! Start early with some saucy texts through the day, stolen kisses or a cheeky bum grab while doing errands, or discreetly flashing your partner in the back of the taxi on your way to a night out. Tease all day for extra hot and heavy fun later.
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