Single and not ready to mingle? Don’t despair - just because you’re not especially enamoured with the opposite sex right now doesn’t mean you don’t have to get any. To paraphrase American Pie, you can always double click your own mouse.
And you don’t have to have boring sex just because you’re on your own… the world is your oyster, as they say - so don’t be shy. You’re all by yourself, for one thing, so there’s no one around to judge… you can be as naughty or as nice as you like when you’re flying solo, after all.
Double penetration is simply when two items (of your choosing since you’re doing this on your own) are inserted into your body during sex or masturbation, typically vaginally and anally. What fun! Now’s the time to invest in some adult lubricants and really go to town on yourself.
If you’re a first-timer, start off small with a dildo and a butt plug and see how you go before progressing to something a little more intense like a threesome. If you’ve never had anal sex before, you’ll need to train your asshole so don’t just get the biggest butt plug you can find and just go for it, you’ll likely end up hurting yourself.
Instead, start off with a finger (remember to file your nails down!) and then progress to two, three and then four. Once you’re used to the sensation and can successfully do this to yourself without risk of injury, it’s sex shopping time.
Lubrication is an absolute must when it comes to anal sex as the lining of your ass is thin so do take care. And always buy a butt plug with a tapered end for easy insertion and removal.
When you’ve tried it on yourself and feel ready to introduce other people, it’s worth taking the time to read up on a few positions to see which ones appeal the most. It will also depend on how many people there are in the bedroom.
The good news is that there are lots of positions you can try for double penetration so you’re going to have a great time finding your favourites. Check out the Swing Lifestyle blog for a couple of ideas or the FY!FF site if you can’t find what you’re looking for there.
Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl seem to be the most popular positions for standard double penetration so this would probably be a good place to start. Just have a bit of a browse with your partner (sure to ramp up the fun even more!) and see which ones you’d like to try out. Good luck with it all!