Although we’re getting better at talking about all aspects of our sex lives, one that often gets ignored is strap-on sex, which is a shame because it can be incredibly pleasurable.
If you and your partner are interested in trying strap-on sex, where do you start and how do you make sure that it is a pleasurable experience for both of you? Shape recently offered some tips which should point you in the right direction.
Rule number one, as with any new sexual experience you’re sharing, is to communicate and then communicate some more! The most important discussion to have is what kind of strap-on sex you’d like to try.
You might be interested in penetrative vaginal or anal sex, dildo oral sex, dildo hand sex or pegging. Talk about what you’re keen to try and then start looking for strap-on harnesses and dildos in the UK.
The news provider stressed that it’s important to carefully select your harness. Ideally, the wearer should pick the harness and the receiver should pick the dildo. There are two main options in terms of harnesses: underwear style and strap style.
The former offers more coverage, whereas strap style harnesses are recommended if the wearer would like their genitals and buttocks easily accessible.
When you start looking for dildos for strap-on play, you’ll realise there are a host of options. Narrowing it down will depend on what kind of strap-on sex you’ve decided you’d like to try first. Strap-on dildos for anal use should have a flared base, for instance, while dildos with a hollow core are recommended if you’re planning to try dildo oral sex.
Still not sure? Earlier this year, one woman told Hello Giggles that one of the parts of strap-on sex that she enjoys is the fact that you and your partner are able to shop for your strap-on together to find something that’s the right fit for both of your bodies.